{"id":94777,"date":"2025-09-09T08:00:00","date_gmt":"2025-09-08T23:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/savvytokyo.com\/?p=94777"},"modified":"2025-09-09T11:46:59","modified_gmt":"2025-09-09T02:46:59","slug":"supporting-your-child-in-the-japanese-school-system","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/savvytokyo.com\/supporting-your-child-in-the-japanese-school-system\/","title":{"rendered":"Supporting Your Child In The Japanese School System"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>From <a href=\"https:\/\/savvytokyo.com\/a-preschool-primer-finding-the-right-kindergarten-for-your-family\/\"><em>youchien<\/em> (preschool)<\/a> to high school and beyond, all students need support. And, if you and your child are going through the Japanese school system for the first time, there\u2019s an extra learning curve to getting an education in Japan. The Savvy team has already helped you with <a href=\"https:\/\/savvytokyo.com\/what-your-child-should-know-before-entering-japanese-elementary-school\/\">everything you need to know before starting elementary school<\/a>, a guide to <a href=\"https:\/\/savvytokyo.com\/japanese-school-lunches-more-than-just-a-meal\/\">Japanese school lunches<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/savvytokyo.com\/buying-randoseru-japanese-elementary-school-bag-guide\/\">buying <em>randoseru<\/em> (school bags)<\/a>. Still, this time, we&#8217;re talking about supporting your kid at school.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>While a few of our suggestions to support your kids transcend national borders, like networking with parents and volunteering, there are some cultural nuances that you may experience as a foreigner. Then, there are tips that are uniquely Japanese, such as learning the language and celebrating traditional holidays.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<nav class=\"wp-block-gplus-anchor-table\"><ol><li class=\"wp-block-gplus-anchor-table__level-2\"><a class=\"wp-block-table-of-contents__entry\" href=\"#1-work-on-your-japanese-skills\">1. Work On Your Japanese Skills<\/a><\/li><li class=\"wp-block-gplus-anchor-table__level-2\"><a class=\"wp-block-table-of-contents__entry\" href=\"#2-network-with-other-parents\">2. Network With Other Parents<\/a><\/li><li class=\"wp-block-gplus-anchor-table__level-2\"><a class=\"wp-block-table-of-contents__entry\" href=\"#3-go-to-omukae-pick-up\">3. Go To Omukae (Pick-Up)\u00a0<\/a><\/li><li class=\"wp-block-gplus-anchor-table__level-2\"><a class=\"wp-block-table-of-contents__entry\" href=\"#4-go-to-every-teacher-meeting-even-the-optional-ones\">4. Go To Every Teacher Meeting (Even The Optional Ones)<\/a><\/li><li class=\"wp-block-gplus-anchor-table__level-2\"><a class=\"wp-block-table-of-contents__entry\" href=\"#5-volunteer\">5. Volunteer<\/a><\/li><li class=\"wp-block-gplus-anchor-table__level-2\"><a class=\"wp-block-table-of-contents__entry\" href=\"#6-get-to-know-your-kids-friends-their-families\">6. Get To Know Your Kids\u2019 Friends &amp; Their Families\u00a0<\/a><\/li><li class=\"wp-block-gplus-anchor-table__level-2\"><a class=\"wp-block-table-of-contents__entry\" href=\"#7-include-japanese-holidays-events-in-your-family-calendar\">7. Include Japanese Holidays &amp; Events In Your Family Calendar<\/a><\/li><li class=\"wp-block-gplus-anchor-table__level-2\"><a class=\"wp-block-table-of-contents__entry\" href=\"#8-support-study-habits-with-fun-drill-books\">8. Support Study Habits With (Fun) Drill Books<\/a><\/li><li class=\"wp-block-gplus-anchor-table__level-2\"><a class=\"wp-block-table-of-contents__entry\" href=\"#9-use-extracurriculars-to-boost-skills-engagement\">9. Use Extracurriculars To Boost Skills &amp; Engagement\u00a0<\/a><\/li><li class=\"wp-block-gplus-anchor-table__level-2\"><a class=\"wp-block-table-of-contents__entry\" href=\"#10-contact-the-school-if-problems-occur\">10. Contact The School If Problems Occur<\/a><\/li><\/ol><\/nav>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading is-style-framed-heading\" id='1-work-on-your-japanese-skills'>1. Work On Your Japanese Skills<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/cdn.savvytokyo.com\/app\/uploads\/2025\/09\/iStock-1170236152.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.savvytokyo.com\/app\/uploads\/2025\/09\/iStock-1170236152-1024x683.jpg\" alt=\"Japanese school record card\" class=\"wp-image-94781\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn.savvytokyo.com\/app\/uploads\/2025\/09\/iStock-1170236152-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/cdn.savvytokyo.com\/app\/uploads\/2025\/09\/iStock-1170236152-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/cdn.savvytokyo.com\/app\/uploads\/2025\/09\/iStock-1170236152-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/cdn.savvytokyo.com\/app\/uploads\/2025\/09\/iStock-1170236152-380x254.jpg 380w, https:\/\/cdn.savvytokyo.com\/app\/uploads\/2025\/09\/iStock-1170236152.jpg 1254w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/a><small class=\"imgcopyright\">\u00a9 Photo by iStock: takasuu<\/small><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>This is number one for a reason. Unless your child is enrolled in an English or international school, it will be hard, if not impossible, to keep up with the administrative tasks and social obligations without Japanese language skills.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>While reading and writing are useful for forms like the <a href=\"https:\/\/savvytokyo.com\/kanji-cheat-sheet-japanese-elementary-school-event-schedule\/\">school event schedule<\/a> and scanning their <em>jikanwari<\/em> (timetable), your speaking and listening skills are the most valuable here. Even if you\u2019re just starting out, the effort will be appreciated by teachers and other parents. But, if possible, having conversational Japanese skills comes in handy for just about every potential school issue, from friend problems to calling in sick.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading is-style-framed-heading\" id='2-network-with-other-parents'>2. Network With Other Parents<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/cdn.savvytokyo.com\/app\/uploads\/2025\/09\/pixta_44408860_M.jpeg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"682\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.savvytokyo.com\/app\/uploads\/2025\/09\/pixta_44408860_M-1024x682.jpeg\" alt=\"Network With Other Parents Japanese School System\" class=\"wp-image-94784\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn.savvytokyo.com\/app\/uploads\/2025\/09\/pixta_44408860_M-1024x682.jpeg 1024w, https:\/\/cdn.savvytokyo.com\/app\/uploads\/2025\/09\/pixta_44408860_M-300x200.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/cdn.savvytokyo.com\/app\/uploads\/2025\/09\/pixta_44408860_M-768x512.jpeg 768w, https:\/\/cdn.savvytokyo.com\/app\/uploads\/2025\/09\/pixta_44408860_M-1536x1024.jpeg 1536w, https:\/\/cdn.savvytokyo.com\/app\/uploads\/2025\/09\/pixta_44408860_M-380x253.jpeg 380w, https:\/\/cdn.savvytokyo.com\/app\/uploads\/2025\/09\/pixta_44408860_M.jpeg 2000w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/a><small class=\"imgcopyright\">\u00a9 Photo by Pixta: YUMIK<\/small><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>In school in Japan, like elsewhere, networking with other parents can be both stressful and key to supporting your child. When I accidentally threw out the name tag for my preschooler\u2019s <em>asobigi<\/em> (playclothes for school), another mother was quick to give me an extra one when I contacted the group Line. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Make sure you fulfill your networking debts in kind with a thank-you note or present. Plus, your foreign cultural capital may be useful when someone wants to know what to gift the resident ALT at graduation!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading is-style-framed-heading\" id='3-go-to-omukae-pick-up'>3. Go To <em>Omukae<\/em> (Pick-Up)&nbsp;<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/cdn.savvytokyo.com\/app\/uploads\/2025\/09\/iStock-1519263587.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.savvytokyo.com\/app\/uploads\/2025\/09\/iStock-1519263587-1024x683.jpg\" alt=\"An elementary school girl running to her mother with her school bag on her back Japanese School System\" class=\"wp-image-94787\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn.savvytokyo.com\/app\/uploads\/2025\/09\/iStock-1519263587-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/cdn.savvytokyo.com\/app\/uploads\/2025\/09\/iStock-1519263587-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/cdn.savvytokyo.com\/app\/uploads\/2025\/09\/iStock-1519263587-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/cdn.savvytokyo.com\/app\/uploads\/2025\/09\/iStock-1519263587-380x253.jpg 380w, https:\/\/cdn.savvytokyo.com\/app\/uploads\/2025\/09\/iStock-1519263587.jpg 1254w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/a><small class=\"imgcopyright\">\u00a9 Photo by iStock: maroke<\/small><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Would my life be easier if I put my preschooler on the school bus to come home? Undoubtedly. We could all use an extra hour for work and chores! But, if I did that, the teacher wouldn\u2019t see me every day, which serves two purposes the way I see it: <\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>She can get used to me and feel more comfortable talking to me, should problems occur<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>I can get a short daily report on my little one, which is especially useful in the early days<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p>Also, being at the pick-up gives me the chance to meet other parents and more easily establish play dates.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading is-style-framed-heading\" id='4-go-to-every-teacher-meeting-even-the-optional-ones'>4. Go To Every Teacher Meeting (Even The Optional Ones)<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/cdn.savvytokyo.com\/app\/uploads\/2025\/09\/iStock-2193796138.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.savvytokyo.com\/app\/uploads\/2025\/09\/iStock-2193796138-1024x683.jpg\" alt=\"Parents and children and teachers interviewing\" class=\"wp-image-94790\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn.savvytokyo.com\/app\/uploads\/2025\/09\/iStock-2193796138-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/cdn.savvytokyo.com\/app\/uploads\/2025\/09\/iStock-2193796138-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/cdn.savvytokyo.com\/app\/uploads\/2025\/09\/iStock-2193796138-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/cdn.savvytokyo.com\/app\/uploads\/2025\/09\/iStock-2193796138-380x253.jpg 380w, https:\/\/cdn.savvytokyo.com\/app\/uploads\/2025\/09\/iStock-2193796138.jpg 1254w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/a><small class=\"imgcopyright\">\u00a9 Photo by iStock: b-bee<\/small><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>One of the best ways to hear about how your child is doing in school is to hear from the person who sees them every day. Meeting with the teacher will give you a sense of how your kid is doing in school and give you a more formal environment to air concerns and grievances (should you have any) than at pick-up or drop-off. And, it\u2019s not just about academics.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>These meetings can be a great place to learn about your kid\u2019s social interactions with peers and teachers alike, as well as the teacher\u2019s tips for improving their everyday life there.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading is-style-framed-heading\" id='5-volunteer'>5. Volunteer<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/cdn.savvytokyo.com\/app\/uploads\/2025\/09\/iStock-947309082.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.savvytokyo.com\/app\/uploads\/2025\/09\/iStock-947309082-1024x683.jpg\" alt=\"Children are struggling hard at exercising Japanese School System\" class=\"wp-image-94792\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn.savvytokyo.com\/app\/uploads\/2025\/09\/iStock-947309082-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/cdn.savvytokyo.com\/app\/uploads\/2025\/09\/iStock-947309082-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/cdn.savvytokyo.com\/app\/uploads\/2025\/09\/iStock-947309082-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/cdn.savvytokyo.com\/app\/uploads\/2025\/09\/iStock-947309082-380x253.jpg 380w, https:\/\/cdn.savvytokyo.com\/app\/uploads\/2025\/09\/iStock-947309082.jpg 1254w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/a><small class=\"imgcopyright\">\u00a9 Photo by iStock: T-kin<\/small><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Depending on your kid\u2019s school, parental volunteering may be encouraged or even mandatory (which is my case). Regardless, it\u2019s a good idea to get involved in your child\u2019s school. As a foreigner, it can be helpful to show your friendly face around school and offer your services, like <em>yomikikase<\/em> (reading aloud) in English to the kids. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There can be some unexpected benefits, too. At my child\u2019s school, parents who help to set up the tents and seats for the annual <em>undoukai<\/em> (sports festival) receive first dibs on seating for the big event. Support your kid by cheering from the front row!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading is-style-framed-heading\" id='6-get-to-know-your-kids-friends-their-families'>6. Get To Know Your Kids\u2019 Friends &amp; Their Families&nbsp;<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/cdn.savvytokyo.com\/app\/uploads\/2025\/09\/iStock-838117036.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.savvytokyo.com\/app\/uploads\/2025\/09\/iStock-838117036-1024x683.jpg\" alt=\"Elementary school students in the classroom\" class=\"wp-image-94793\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn.savvytokyo.com\/app\/uploads\/2025\/09\/iStock-838117036-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/cdn.savvytokyo.com\/app\/uploads\/2025\/09\/iStock-838117036-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/cdn.savvytokyo.com\/app\/uploads\/2025\/09\/iStock-838117036-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/cdn.savvytokyo.com\/app\/uploads\/2025\/09\/iStock-838117036-380x253.jpg 380w, https:\/\/cdn.savvytokyo.com\/app\/uploads\/2025\/09\/iStock-838117036.jpg 1254w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/a><small class=\"imgcopyright\">\u00a9 Photo by iStock: Milatas<\/small><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>For some, making friends is easy, while others find it a challenge. In both cases, especially if you have young children, there are ways you can support them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Ask who they talked to or played with on a given day<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Learn the names of classmates and their personalities<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Bring your kid to the nearby park after school and introduce yourself to other parents<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>By reinforcing the friendships your kids are making by organizing playdates or helping to choose friends\u2019 birthday presents, you can help them develop these relationships.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading is-style-framed-heading\" id='7-include-japanese-holidays-events-in-your-family-calendar'>7. Include Japanese Holidays &amp; Events In Your Family Calendar<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/cdn.savvytokyo.com\/app\/uploads\/2023\/02\/iStock-1081996730.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.savvytokyo.com\/app\/uploads\/2023\/02\/iStock-1081996730-1024x683.jpg\" alt=\"Throw Beans At The &quot;Oni&quot;\" class=\"wp-image-65322\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn.savvytokyo.com\/app\/uploads\/2023\/02\/iStock-1081996730-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/cdn.savvytokyo.com\/app\/uploads\/2023\/02\/iStock-1081996730-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/cdn.savvytokyo.com\/app\/uploads\/2023\/02\/iStock-1081996730-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/cdn.savvytokyo.com\/app\/uploads\/2023\/02\/iStock-1081996730-380x253.jpg 380w, https:\/\/cdn.savvytokyo.com\/app\/uploads\/2023\/02\/iStock-1081996730.jpg 1254w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/a><small class=\"imgcopyright\">\u00a9 Photo by iStock: Milatas<\/small><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>One way to help your child in school is to embrace Japanese cultural events at home. For instance, why not dress up like an <em>oni <\/em>(demon) and prepare to be pelted by an onslaught of beans for <em><a href=\"https:\/\/savvytokyo.com\/how-to-celebrate-setsubun-with-kids\/\">setsubun<\/a><\/em>, a traditional holiday celebrated in early February? Or, relearn how to celebrate familiar holidays, like <a href=\"https:\/\/savvytokyo.com\/tag\/valentines-day-japan\/\">Valentine&#8217;s Day<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/savvytokyo.com\/christmas-in-japan-with-kids\/\">Christmas<\/a>, complete with homemade chocolates and KFC, respectively.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>By integrating some Japanese events into your family calendar, you&#8217;ll not only have fun, but also give your kids the chance to enjoy the same cultural experiences as their peers.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading is-style-framed-heading\" id='8-support-study-habits-with-fun-drill-books'>8. Support Study Habits With (Fun) Drill Books<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/cdn.savvytokyo.com\/app\/uploads\/2025\/09\/iStock-2199129653.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.savvytokyo.com\/app\/uploads\/2025\/09\/iStock-2199129653-1024x683.jpg\" alt=\"Above view of girl whit brown hair writing homework\" class=\"wp-image-94794\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn.savvytokyo.com\/app\/uploads\/2025\/09\/iStock-2199129653-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/cdn.savvytokyo.com\/app\/uploads\/2025\/09\/iStock-2199129653-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/cdn.savvytokyo.com\/app\/uploads\/2025\/09\/iStock-2199129653-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/cdn.savvytokyo.com\/app\/uploads\/2025\/09\/iStock-2199129653-380x254.jpg 380w, https:\/\/cdn.savvytokyo.com\/app\/uploads\/2025\/09\/iStock-2199129653.jpg 1253w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/a><small class=\"imgcopyright\">\u00a9 Photo by iStock: StockPlanets<\/small><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Although the Japanese education system is a rigorous journey involving plenty of rote memorization and regular testing, it&#8217;s also fairly standardized. This means until the end of high school, most students in the public system will learn the same content within a given grade. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So, with that in mind, why not give your child an extra advantage by introducing future material before they see it at school? Or, strengthen weaker skills with some additional practice? Japan has a vast market of self-study books that match the public curriculum. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Plus, if your kid doesn&#8217;t like the idea of you teaching multiplication, maybe they&#8217;ll enjoy a fashionable, transforming <a href=\"https:\/\/savvytokyo.com\/magical-girl-anime-the-lasting-legacy\/\">magical girl<\/a> or Pikachu as their <em>sensei<\/em> (teacher) instead.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading is-style-framed-heading\" id='9-use-extracurriculars-to-boost-skills-engagement'>9. Use Extracurriculars To Boost Skills &amp; Engagement&nbsp;<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/cdn.savvytokyo.com\/app\/uploads\/2022\/06\/iStock-172625797.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.savvytokyo.com\/app\/uploads\/2022\/06\/iStock-172625797-1024x683.jpg\" alt=\"Skill-Building In Japan Through Extracurriculars\" class=\"wp-image-58946\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn.savvytokyo.com\/app\/uploads\/2022\/06\/iStock-172625797-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/cdn.savvytokyo.com\/app\/uploads\/2022\/06\/iStock-172625797-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/cdn.savvytokyo.com\/app\/uploads\/2022\/06\/iStock-172625797-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/cdn.savvytokyo.com\/app\/uploads\/2022\/06\/iStock-172625797-380x254.jpg 380w, https:\/\/cdn.savvytokyo.com\/app\/uploads\/2022\/06\/iStock-172625797.jpg 1254w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/a><small class=\"imgcopyright\">\u00a9 Photo by iStock: Nikada<\/small><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Known as <em>naraigoto<\/em> in Japanese, <a href=\"https:\/\/savvytokyo.com\/skill-building-in-japan-through-extracurriculars\/\">extracurricular activities<\/a> are a great way to nurture emerging interests and build new or existing skills. Some of the most popular naraigoto for children in Japan are piano, swimming and sports such as baseball and soccer. <em>Juku<\/em> or cram school is another common naraigoto, but one that focuses on academic skills, including math, Japanese or even English. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you choose a nearby extracurricular, your kids can form connections with other kids at the same local school, but in a new context. And, some skills that don\u2019t seem 100% academic, like reading music and swimming, are also part of the school curriculum, where your little one may appreciate the leg up.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading is-style-framed-heading\" id='10-contact-the-school-if-problems-occur'>10. Contact The School If Problems Occur<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/cdn.savvytokyo.com\/app\/uploads\/2025\/09\/iStock-674171568.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"682\" src=\"https:\/\/cdn.savvytokyo.com\/app\/uploads\/2025\/09\/iStock-674171568-1024x682.jpg\" alt=\"Bored of elementary school boys lie on the desk back Japanese School System\" class=\"wp-image-94797\" srcset=\"https:\/\/cdn.savvytokyo.com\/app\/uploads\/2025\/09\/iStock-674171568-1024x682.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/cdn.savvytokyo.com\/app\/uploads\/2025\/09\/iStock-674171568-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/cdn.savvytokyo.com\/app\/uploads\/2025\/09\/iStock-674171568-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/cdn.savvytokyo.com\/app\/uploads\/2025\/09\/iStock-674171568-380x253.jpg 380w, https:\/\/cdn.savvytokyo.com\/app\/uploads\/2025\/09\/iStock-674171568.jpg 1255w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/a><small class=\"imgcopyright\">\u00a9 Photo by iStock: paylessimages<\/small><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>If you have any worries about <a href=\"https:\/\/savvytokyo.com\/bullying-japanese-schools\/\">bullying<\/a> or any other problems, contact the school earlier rather than later. Getting in touch with the teacher is a good place to start. After you raise your concerns, the teacher will usually give their perspective on the issue. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sometimes they may already be aware of a problem, but not always. In either case, the teacher can pay extra attention to your child and make appropriate interventions to better support your child. Be sure to follow up with your kid regularly to see if the situation has changed and update the teacher should the problem persist. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If the issue continues or the teacher is the problem, you may have to contact the school administration.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Do you have any other ideas on how best to support your child in the Japanese school system? 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